Connection Coaching

A private, judgment-free space to reconnect with pleasure, confidence, and authentic desire
If you've ever felt lost, unsure, or disconnected in your intimate life, you're not alone and you're not broken.
I offer one-on-one coaching in NYC for individuals looking to feel more grounded, confident, and fulfilled in their sensual experiences. Whether you’re just starting out or exploring new territory, this space is for you.
Coaching Can Help If You’re:
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A virgin or inexperienced and unsure how to begin
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Influenced by p*rn and unsure how to adapt to real life intimacy
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Anxious in the bedroom or self-conscious about your performance
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Struggling to read cues or tell if your partner is genuinely enjoying themselves
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Looking to improve in a specific area but don’t know how or who to ask
In our work together, you’ll learn how to slow down, tune in, and communicate more clearly without shame or pressure. This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about reconnecting you with your natural confidence, curiosity, and presence.
For the More Curious: Kink, Power, and Sensory Play
If you're further along in your journey, I also offer guided support for those curious about kink and conscious power exchange. These sessions prioritize emotional safety, enthusiastic consent, and mutual respect. Great experiences begin with great trust.
Areas we can explore together include:
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Dominance and submission dynamics
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Rope, restraints, blindfolds, gags, and sensory play
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Erotic confidence and communication
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Guided submission or gentle femdom
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Temperature play, praise and degradation, and edging
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Pegging and prostate exploration for curious beginners or experienced receivers
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Understanding your boundaries, wants, and fears
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Designing scenes that prioritize emotional connection and clarity
Whether you’re a first-timer or revisiting a long-hidden part of yourself, I meet you where you are with care and without judgment.
Why Work With Me?
I’m Christine Reid, an NYC-based model, muse, and intimacy coach who believes pleasure is emotional, not just physical. My background in artistic modeling and energy work allows me to hold space with calm, softness, and intentional presence.
This is not therapy or clinical education. It is personal, intuitive, and grounded in real-world experience. I offer coaching for people who crave connection instead of performance, and presence instead of pressure.
What to Expect
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In-person sessions in NYC available by request on my Experiences page
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Open to all genders and experience levels
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Fully confidential and consent-based
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Personalized support tailored to your pace and comfort
This is a space for learning, unlearning, and becoming. For healing shame. For trying things slowly and safely. For asking questions you’ve never said out loud.
Common Questions Clients Bring Me
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How do I initiate intimacy without feeling awkward
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What do I do if I’m scared to ask for what I want
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I want to try pegging but don’t know where to begin
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I’ve only ever had performative sex. How do I make it feel real
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I’m scared of being too much or not enough
If any of this sounds familiar, you're not alone and you're not too late.
Let’s begin wherever you are.
Recommended Resources for Safe, Informed Exploration
Whether you're new to intimacy coaching or simply curious about building deeper connections, these trusted resources offer guidance on communication, emotional awareness, and respectful personal expression. Ideal for anyone exploring confidence, boundaries, or alternative relationship styles.
Understanding Consent and Communication
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Consent Explained – Planned Parenthood
A foundational overview of what healthy consent looks like in any relationship. -
The Consent Toolkit – Scarleteen
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Tea and Consent – Blue Seat Studios (YouTube)
A widely shared video that offers a simple metaphor for understanding consent.
Glossaries and Educational Guides
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Kink Education – National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
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Glossary of Terms – Submissive Guide
A beginner-friendly glossary for exploring new language and terminology.
Emotional Safety and Somatic Awareness
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Intimacy After Trauma A compassionate introduction to reconnecting with comfort and trust.
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Somatic Healing and Body Awareness
Tools and teachings for cultivating presence, body literacy, and emotional safety.
Education, Coaching, and Body Literacy
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Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. – Author of Come As You Are
Science-backed insights into human arousal, desire, and self-awareness. -
Pleasure Mechanics – Online Courses
Educational resources that center mindfulness, embodiment, and practical tools for deeper connection.